What's happening?

Believe me relationships are not easy. For the past two days I was hearing how my close friends were struggling in maintaining their relationship. This july really has something to do with relationships I guess. Last year I was in breakup at this same month and this year I felt really bad for my close ones. Literally everyone called one after the other. I was shocked to hear all their stories and I was mouth shut by this incident. Expressing love and being understood by our partners is very challenging especially in this generation where trust, loyalty, commitments, actions and time plays a major role. Either one of the partner fails to express or else fails to accept. Initially I was very confident that this relationships would be so nice and imagined all those cinderella stories. But it's just upside down. There would be days where nothings feels right and you just don't feel the same love anymore. Not all days are 50% and 50%. Some would be 60% and 40% and some would even be 10% and 90%. Giving counselling to my friends would be easy but when it comes to my life I am  still stuck. LOVE is just a magical feeling which is unexplainable and everyone deserve to be loved one way or the other. I failed in my first love but I would never tell others not to fall for it again. I still LOVE, LOVE! It's just warm, intense and wow feeling!!   


                                                            TO LOVE AND TO BE LOVED

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