Escapism!

Running away from the problem is the easy way to make you regret later. But this will work at some places. Today I miss my home so much. I am not a person who always wanted to go home but to everyone's surprise I said, "I wanna go home". It's true when people say home is where the heart is. My go to escapism is my home. Whenever my world is falling apart, I just want to leave everything and go home. May be that doesn't solve the problem but trust me atleast it gives you the peace of mind to think and reset your mental health. Seeing your parents faces, your most comfortable environment, cozy bed, place where no one is going to judge you will definitely. For the sake of your parents happiness and them not finding that you are upset, you start to pretend to be happy and eventually that becomes your state of mind. This is what I feel whenever I feel like I wanna go home. But how long is the big question? Sometimes you would be in a place where there is no probability of going home. That's the situation today. May be you should try to find it inside!

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